
Maybe you don’t have any “wonder.”
Memory is crucial to every aspect of our lives, but all of us experience times when memory fails us, often embarrassingly. And some people claim they can never remember a name or a face.
Although researchers are gaining knowledge of the psychological and physiological bases of memory formation and retrieval – it’s really only beginning to be understood. Still, scientists are discovering fascinating information that can help all of us remember better. For example, wonder.
Common sense tells us we remember best what we’re interested in. Now research is confirming the power of curiosity. In several studies where subjects were shown faces and asked to frame questions – “Would I buy a used car from this man?” “Is she an actress?” “Is that person shy?” – they remembered faces better later than when they used standard memory techniques such as noting a person’s hair color or head shape.
The opposite side of the coin is stress. Just as children often don’t learn well when they’re frightened, habitually stressed people can be too distracted to form clear impressions in the same way. It’s hard when under stress, to get in touch with the deep parts of the brain where memory is stored, which is why relaxation techniques such as meditation and hypnosis are great aids to memory.
When you’re nervous and upset, the last thing you want to hear is someone telling you to relax. However, you can learn techniques that will improve your memory. Some are used by those memory entertainers who show off their fantastic feats of memory.
~~When meeting a stranger, in addition to noting facial features and asking yourself questions such as whether you’d buy a used car form that person, make name-picture associations. If you meet a man named Green, try to visualize his face as green. If it’s a harder name, ask for the spelling and see the letters in your mind. Repeat the name in conversation (with the images in your head), and especially as you say good-bye.
~If you have a number of errands to run, rehearse the sequence of them mentally. See yourself getting into the car, stopping at the bank, etc. That way, even if you forget to take your list, you may not forget what’s on it. And make your lists in categories of things or events; no more than seven categories or seven items per category. Seven is what psychologists say is the maximum cluster we can retain.
~~Create your own mnemonic devices (from Mnemosyne, the Greek goddess of memory). They can be rhymes (“Thirty days has September…”; sentences from initials, “Every good boy does fine”; the EDGDF treble notes of the G clef taught musical students; or pun associations “we “spring forward” or “fall back” when setting clocks for standard or daylight-saving time).
~~If you’re memorizing a speech, do it in the evening. It’s been found that long-term memory works better as the day goes on, and sleep will block interference from other memories. In addition, study your speech in time chunks of twenty minutes, if possible, or no more than two hours, if you’re really pressed, before stopping to refresh, rest, and review.
Brains, like bodies, need exercise. Memory may slow up a bit with age – doesn’t everything? But unless you’ve been diagnosed with clinical dementia (a rare condition) or Alzheimer’s – it is not lost.
There is a new body of research that suggests that certain foods rich in the chemical choline, such as eggs, soybeans, and liver, may help the brain chemistry of memory. Whether or not this is so, there is no question that proper diet and exercise are essential to all good brain and body functions. You can remember that!
Courtesy of ThirdAge.com